“As he stood before her open grave, I doubt he had ever shown his...
This is a comment by Adam D. Oglesby on the post “The Male Straitjacket“. “I can well remember some years back when a close family member passed away unexpectedly. As far as I was concerned she was a...
View ArticleThe Father’s Burden
What’s Your Story of “Providing?” One story I hear over and over again, from all sorts of men, rich and poor, liberal and conservative, of many races and ethnicities, is the need to provide for their...
View ArticleAnd Turn Again With Worn Out Tools and Not Complain…
From Fulfillment to “Providing” I was really proud of myself. I had just resigned a position with the South Carolina Commission for the Blind because of a bad co-worker and was thinking about the next...
View ArticleThe Year of Men?
Did the Great Recession Make Men More “Well-Rounded?” Eve Tahmincioglu at HuffPo has published a piece declaring 2013 the “Year of the Working Man,” contrary to all of the “End of Men” type stories....
View ArticleYour Network is More Valuable Than any Bank Account
How to Perfect Power Networking When I was 18 years old, I met a fellow entrepreneur through MySpace. He took me under his wing and taught me the ins and outs of entrepreneurship. Through him, I...
View ArticleA Business Dinner Gone Bad
“Men Succeed More Ably in Business When Women are Involved” It was a traditional event, conducted during the thick of an out-of-town trade show: dinner hosted by my magazine for a favored client. Our...
View ArticleIn a Woman’s World?
Tales from the Third Shift of the Psych Ward I had just finished a short CNA program in a local NC Technical college. So now I was having to rebuild. After a female friend had told me about the need...
View ArticleThe Personal Hell of Being the Breadwinner
“No one ever thanks dad for takin’ care of his business … What’s he get? The big piece of chicken.” – Chris Rock —- Our society treats the breadwinner of the family much like we treat the wealthy...
View ArticleAn Open Letter to the Quiet and Desperate
Sometimes Tough Guys Are Dying Inside This piece was going to pay homage to my new life as the 42-year-old ex-executive who jumped out of a perfectly good career to start a consulting practice a year...
View ArticleHow Did I Get PTSD When I’ve Never Been in the Military?
PTSD Comes in Many Forms Until my marriage crumbled in the close of the eighties I had very little knowledge of the psychology of spouse abuse. That is often the case with the abused; even educated...
View ArticleWhat Exactly Do We Owe Our Kids?
In light of a recent news story about a teenager suing her parents for college tuition, Larry Bernstein wonders what essential items parents should be obligated to provide for their children. — “I...
View ArticleThe Growing Costs of Fatherhood: How Healthcare Illiteracy Impacts Men
Is the lack of healthcare literacy affecting men’s ability to provide for their families? Brittni Brown examines the statistics. — Meeting the basic needs of the family is often considered a defining...
View ArticleThe Man Who Cried “HELP!” And Saved His Family
How one dad found the inner spiritual resources to turn from his own limited ability to a higher source of help. — Dads want to protect their families—that’s a given. What’s often not as obvious is...
View ArticleLet’s Talk About the Pressure on Men To Provide
Embed from Getty Images — Full disclosure: I am not a dad. But, I’m married to a really great one, so I consider myself somewhat of a sideline authority on all things papa-related. That said, I think...
View Article4 Lessons Every Father Should Teach His Sons
— The world is changing, and the roles of men are evolving as well. During this new millennium, society has taken a closer look at the classic expectations and behaviors of men. Often this conversation...
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